Why Men Cheat- because they are apparently incapable of monogamy.

There's a book out called there called "Sex at Dawn" detailing why monogamy is against human nature. Article at Salon

Have fun with that. The only reason I know about it is that I read the Savage Love column and Dan's been kinda pushing this book. It sounds...interesting but still kind of a load of shit.

Some people like monogamy. Some people like multiple partners. Some people like celibacy. As long as all involved are informed and consenting, who cares?

Lady Anne wrote:

Some people like monogamy. Some people like multiple partners. Some people like celibacy. As long as all involved are informed and consenting, who cares?

Well you do run into the occasional bout of trouble when the people involved don't bother to discuss the matter beforehand. I married my ex believing he was capable of being monogamous, and he never said anything to dissuade me from the notion. Except have a repeated string of affairs over the next 20+ years.

Yeah cheating =/= open relationship.

Cheating, to me, is not the act of sticking your dick in another person. It's the lying and the dishonesty, which is much, much worse.

ZoZo wrote:

Cheating, to me, is not the act of sticking your dick in another person. It's the lying and the dishonesty, which is much, much worse.

Amen!