pixyland.org - The Homepage of Peter Pan...

...AKA Randy Constan, a 56-year-old man from Tampa, Florida.

I was going to talk about this website further, but... I just can't.

Agh, it's tl;dr and that website layout could use a lot of work. The bits I did read seemed actually okay to me, so what exactly are you trying to point out here? Don't tell me it's that an older man wants to be more childlike and advocates androgyny.

One thing...

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Unfortunately this society has all but deified the gender boundaries they've established, especially the rules of what boys should and should not enjoy doing. This is why little girls are praised for interest in "boyish" activities, while boys who do the opposite are seldom tolerated.

This isn't true, but what is true is that boyish women are more accepted than feminine boys. So I see where he's coming from.

Now what's your problem with any of this?

Verandering wrote:

Agh, it's tl;dr and that website layout could use a lot of work. The bits I did read seemed actually okay to me, so what exactly are you trying to point out here? Don't tell me it's that an older man wants to be more childlike and advocates androgyny.

One thing...

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Unfortunately this society has all but deified the gender boundaries they've established, especially the rules of what boys should and should not enjoy doing. This is why little girls are praised for interest in "boyish" activities, while boys who do the opposite are seldom tolerated.

This isn't true, but what is true is that boyish women are more accepted than feminine boys. So I see where he's coming from.

Now what's your problem with any of this?

He thinks that he's an IRL pixie.

Seule wrote:

He thinks that he's an IRL pixie.

Where the fuck do you gather that?

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Well after all, Peter Pan is a character that has always been known for vanity.

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So "why Peter Pan" you ask? Although Peter Pan is definitely a boy, to me this character is perfectly androgynous, and in his eternal childhood rejects the idea of growing up and leaving this behind.

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Of course life is not a game, and I do strive to continually grow in emotional, spiritual, and mental maturity. But there is and always has been this lighter side to me. Childlike, "pixyish", and unencumbered by notions of what is and is not permissible for boys.

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Yet it is for these very reasons that this character suits me perfectly.

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But beyond entertainment, it has inspired many to take a more active role in the simple joy of being themselves.

I haven't explored anything other than this main page, but he's making it perfectly clear that it's an avatar expression of other things he finds important.

Actually, I think this guy seems really nice. he's doing what he loves and seems to find happiness in that, while spreading a message of love and acceptance. Plus, he looks amazing for being 56! I wish I knew his secret. True, his site could use a better layout, but it's just a personal website. I don't really see what's so offensive about it.

Ehh, it wasn't so much that it was an awful thing, more that it was just weird. However, I may have been influenced by the link that took me there. Perhaps I'm wrong. Sorry, then

I agree with Mary Sue.

Don't sweat it, Seule.

He seems alright and all, but that smile creeps me out just a little.

Well, he writes horrible poetry and has a pretty amusing fashion sense. Although I don't find anything wrong with his fetish (and there are some pretty obvious signs it is a fetish in the outfit and links section), the execution leaves something to be desired. I think that laughing at this guy is no different than laughing at ugly people in Walmart.

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I could've sworn I saw this guy before, but I'm not quite sure...

OH MY GOD, THAT'S WHERE!

His wife is so gorgeous.

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I wish that man was my neighbor.

Seriously, imagine having that guy live next door to you. You'd never be bored.

Hey, fuck you, the last outfit on that fashion page you linked? The Green Jester? That's fucking amazing. <3 I also like the Purple Pixie, but it's not as awesomely insane.

Also, if he really has the courage to go out in public like that, he's my real life hero.



... His wife eerily resembles my mother, and that horrifies me.

This cheered me up. It's pretty wierd but hey, whatever your thing is, do it.

Verandering wrote:

... His wife eerily resembles my mother, and that horrifies me.

It might not just be a resemblance. Think about it. Have you ever seen his wife and your mother in the same room? Does your mother ever disappear for hours at a time?

We're MEN! We're men in tights (tight!) TIGHTS!

Oh look, it's Michael Jackson without the successful music career.

Hot Cancer wrote:

Oh look, it's Michael Jackson without the successful music career.

Lol I agree with ya there.

Reidmar wrote:

Hot Cancer wrote:

Oh look, it's Michael Jackson without the successful music career.

Lol I agree with ya there.

Can't say I disagree either.

But I'm not hating. There's nothing wrong with being creepy as long as you're not molesting anyone.

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Verandering wrote:

... His wife eerily resembles my mother, and that horrifies me.

It might not just be a resemblance. Think about it. Have you ever seen his wife and your mother in the same room? Does your mother ever disappear for hours at a time?

Now that you mention it...

Lmfao veranding XD